You're saying, "screw you and your silly emotions, I've got to get laid.
That being said, the first relationship I pursued was not worth it, because I didn't take the time to think if dating my best friend's ex would ruin our friendship.
Communication is vital if maintaining the friendship is important to you.
In some ways this is perfectly natural.
However, I must point out that your case is much rarer than the norm.
Think of the conversation as a PowerPoint presentation.
Is this girl really special to you?
Dan has been helping new men succeed with women for more than 14 years.